Seriously speaking.  I’m not that suprise at the subject matter.  I have close firends that are cops, and in fact, my brother is entering the academy late this year.  So I basically knew about the dirty cops before they printed this article.  I always wondered how this works when a Cop has to arrest another Cop.  Is the arresting officer more hard or easy on the cop being arrested?  Does he losen the cuffs or give him special pives?  Whats really the deal with that.  I’m perceiving that not too many people know about this and being that the news is out there, will possibly change many police officers actions in the future.  Its time they realize that they are call upon to uphold the law, not stand above it. 

A close friend of mine asked me for some advice on a relationship on whether or not he should take an opportunity of sleeping with a co-worker. He explains that this woman is a sex craze addict and desires nothing financially, spirtually, or emotionally. She just wants a physical realtionship. Sex, just sex! They’re both in relationships so there’s no tie downs. They will meet once ot twice a week in a motel or hotel of some sort after work, which will be paid for by her. In fact she’ll send a car to take him home afterwards.

Putting aside my moral values, the deal sounds great. So I asked him about his girlfriend and what would she think if she finds out. He said she won’t find out and if she does its a great opportunity for him to get out of the relationship. He doesn’t think his current girlfriend puts out (sexually) as much, and he’s been along the lines of starting an affair anyways.

To to my amazment, he didn’t need my advice at all. His intentions was played out already like a nine-move chess game. I told him just that. That his intentions already defined his actions and there’s no need for me to advise him to anything. He took it the wrong way ultimately and said I was jealous of his situation and he should have known better to ask me. I’m kinda hurt by his words so I guess I know how he feels, but where did I go wrong?